A Marriage in The Valley
PEOPLE from all the surrounding villages of Matunda and Lukhome, with sad, doleful faces, were already gathering for Jane’s burial in Peter’s home, in our small village of Nyasi. It was around eleven a.m on the twenty-third of February 1993; a dry, cloudless day marked only with intervals of dry, dusty whirlwinds.
Meanwhile, Peter and I were hurriedly compiling Jane’s short life history, which to my amazement, seemed to stretch between strange towns and villages in East Africa. It began at Naivasha, her cradle, weaved through Central Kenya, Mombasa, Voi; then all the way to Kigumba, a strange village in northern Uganda. Then from Kigumba back to Naivasha, then down to the bottom of all the bottoms in the world: The Great Rift Valley; she now lay motionless on the bed at the centre of Peter’s house, in Nyasi Village, Kiminini Location, Trans-Nzoia District, awaiting her final and eternal descend into Sheol. It was only Peter, her bereaved husband, who knew much about her background, so he narrated while I wrote. We were seated under the rich canopy of the bougainvillea tree in front of their house.
Then all of a sudden, we heard the roar like that of a car engine. People started in the direction of the noise. And there it was. The sight of a car was a rare occurrence in our remote village of Nyasi, about twenty-five kilometres west of Kitale town. Out of the blue, a white matatu Peugeot 404 appeared struggling along the narrow bumpy path towards Peter’s home. The drove directly into the crowded compound and parked under the wattle tree in front of Peter’s parents’ house. Strange passengers started alighting from the car. One after another, strange women, conversing in Gikuyu, alighted from the car and formed a small ring near the car. All eyes in the homestead were now fixed on these strangers.
One burly brown woman came forward and enquired, coincidentally, from Peter’s mother:
“Where have you laid Jane’s corpse?”
“Come along,” Peter’s mother said and volunteered to guide the woman and her colleagues into Peter’s house. As they walked, none of them spoke. A few other mourners followed them into the house. I also followed them.
While inside the house, they stood around Jane’s bed, staring expressionlessly and emotionlessly at Jane’s corpse. Who are these strangers and what do they want to do to Jane? I asked myself, but this brown, burly sure has some semblance to Jane. Could she be her mother? I pondered. But they did nothing to Jane; they just continued staring expressionlessly and emotionlessly at her.
Suddenly, a bizarre thing happened. As we were staring curiously at the strangers, while they were staring silently and remorselessly at Jane’s corpse, Jane’s brown, smiling (the smile she loved to smile when she used to be alive) face turned black and ugly and then colourless; black tears started streaming slowly down both sides of her face. While we were still baffled, awestruck and horrified by this awesome phenomenon, a malodorous stench ensued from Jane’s corpse and filled the entire house. Poignant, wordless, spooky silence tightened the entire room and everyone in it. The obnoxious odour increased in intensity until no one could withstand it; the strange women, led by the burly, brown woman, all visibly shocked and horror and fear written all over their faces, started filing out of the room. They headed straight back to their car.
While the other women were hurriedly packing themselves into the car, the burly woman called Nambuye, Peter’s mother, and asked her:
“Are you Jane’s mother-in-law?”
“Yes.” Nambuye replied, “And are you Jane’s mother?”
“Yes,” the burly woman said between tight teeth, “I have given you my consent to burry my daughter.”
“Thank you. That is what we were waiting for. We have been vainly trying to get you or your brother.” But even before Nambuye had finished what she was saying, the woman got into the car and ordered the driver to speed off.
Even long after the car had gone away, Jane was still weeping. Then, one of the eldest women among the mourners approached Nambuye and said:
“Nambuye, she is grieved. Go and console her.”
“Oh, Anyesi, how do I do that? I have never done it before.” Nambuye replied in consternation.
“My daughter, I know this is a totally strange phenomenon to you children of nowadays. But to us old folks, we understand it, we are closer to it. She is still here with us; her soul has not yet departed for the ancestral land, it is still hovering over the body, guarding it. It will start its journey the third day after burial. Now, my daughter, you know she is grieved, just go and talk to her. Persuade her to cease crying.”
The old woman persisted until Nambuye agreed to go and console Jane. Anyesi called other elderly women, and together, they escorted Nambuye back to Jane’s bedside. Encouraged by the elderly women, Nambuye held a handkerchief in one hand and stood over Jane’s weeping corpse.
“My daughter, she uttered solemnly, “You know that I am your mother. I sacrificed all I had in my struggle to save you, but death, oh death, you prevailed against me! And so it snatched you, the Peter’s pearl and the charm of my home, from us. Please Jane!” Nambuye shrieked, “Stop crying! I will keep your word. I won’t let them take you away. They only came to see you, but I am the one who will bury you…We love you…So stop weeping now, Jane…”
At this Juncture, Nambuye stooped and wiped the tears from Jane’s closed eyes, and Jane ceased weeping immediately. A few moments later, the nauseating stench also vanished from the house and Jane’s smiling, brown face returned.
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The day Peter had brought Jane home from Naivasha, where they had met, loved and married each other while working in a floricultural company called Sulumac Flowers Ltd, their arrival in Nyasi Village had caused quite a sensation for several days. They had arrived, walking hand in hand at a leisurely pace, with resplendent travellers bags strapped neatly on their backs like tourists. They were smartly dressed: Jane was in a blue sports jacket, a well-fitting white blouse, a red mini-skirt, white Reebok shoes and white socks. Peter was clad in a green sports jacket, red T-shirt, blue cowboy jeans and white Reebok shoes. This peculiar sight attracted the attention of the entire village.
The strange, little lady was extremely beautiful in every aspect: she had a short, slim stature, a young flawless, a very rosy-brown face with curly black hair, and full, sensuous thick lips that readily parted in smile to expose spotless white teeth. Her big beautiful innocent eyes that rolled keenly as she squinted around, were fixed on Pater;s face most of the time as she posed curious questions in reaction to the new, strange environment with scattered mud houses, gurgling rivers and streams and mowing cows. It was in the glamorous sunset of November 20th 1991; the sun was just a gigantic red ball over Mt. Elgon, the entire western horizon was splashed in flaming golden colours. The splendid couple was coming home for honeymoon and matrimonial settlement.
“Peter, is that the famous Mt. Elgon?” Jane pointed excitedly at the jutting peaks of the hazy mountain, basking in the rich golden rays of the setting sun.
“Yes” Her enchanted spouse replied.
They conversed in Swahili and English all the time, an indication that she was of a different ethnicity.
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In the afternoon of the following day, I was at Peter’s house seated under the sprawling bougainvillea flower in front of their house, listening to Peter’s rare melodramatic love spree with Jane while the bride prepared a cup of tea for us. It transpired between us, and later throughout the entire village that the beautiful lady was not only Peter’s visiting workmate, but his wife, and phenomenally, she was of Kikuyu origin!
“We married against the will of Jane’s mother,” Peter confessed to me, his brown handsome face beaming with satisfaction. I smiled admiringly at him.
“Actually Simiyu, we could not help it! It was a Romeo And Juliet affair! I know you are as educated as I am but you are a born again Christian, and therefore, I doubt if you believe in romance. Have you ever heard of love at first sight? Love so deep and unfathomable that you are ready to risk anything for the sake of that love? I have never loved like this, Simiyu, and I don’t think I will ever love like this!”
“Now, Peter, why was Jane’s mother opposed to your marriage?” I queried, knowing very well it was because of the strong cultural prejudices between our two tribes.
“Are you not a Bukusu? Don’t you know that there have always been strong cultural clashes between the Luhyas and the Kikuyus,” Peter answered without hesitation.
“When Jane’s mother learned of our blossoming love, she sternly forbade her daughter never ever to commit her life to me. But, as I have already confessed to you, our love was deeper than the deepest lake in this country, and it transcended all the prejudices of the two tribes put together, and we soon declared our unwavering plan to marry. When Jane’s mother heard about our adamant plan to marry, she pronounced a curse over our marriage, and vowed never to visit Jane’s matrimonial home if she ever got married to me. You know, Jane’s her only child, her most precious thing in the world, and she has no father. Poor old woman; She went mad with rage, and was completely pissed off when we finally abandoned our jobs and headed west. We are head over heels in love with each other, pal.”
By now, Jane had finished serving us with milk-rich tea and she had now taken her place beside her spouse. As Peter confessed his love for Jane for the umpteenth time, he put his hand tenderly around Jane’s shoulders. At her husband’s loving touch, she responded with a direct amorous look into Peter’s eyes, making go green with envy! It is very true indeed, this Romeo And Juliet affair, I pondered silently. Peter’s young, boisterous, romantic and adventurous character closely resembled that of Romeo, while Jane’s rare, rosy, sensuous beauty perfectly marched that of Juliet. Jane admired Peter’s face with its brown complexion and its black, bushy side whiskers, to say nothing of his hairy body---especially around the chest, hands, and legs---and his deep, soft sonorous voice.
For several weeks, Peter and Jane faced hostility and fiery criticism from all the people in Nyasi Village, but despite this scathing attacks, the young couple, like a lonely lily in a desert, was here to stay.
Opicho, our old next door neighbour lashed out at the strange marriage:
“This women from central Kenya are notorious for running away with children! And children are our most precious legacy; Peter is ruined unless he marries a second wife who is a Bukusu. In fact, according to our culture, marrying from a strange tribe is not a strange thing, but this kind of marriage is void, and therefore, a man has to marry a second wife who is truly a Bukusu. Now, I pity Peter. These Kikuyu women are also very well known for their boundless greed for money; they even murder their husbands in order to inherit their wealth. Can they make good wives for our sons?”
Jane and Peter had not only abandoned their parents but their jobs too. No sooner had they been married for barely one year than Jane was completely assimilated into our Bukusu community, absorbing all our cultural values and practices with relish, and learning the Bukusu language at an extraordinarily rapid rate. Jane also esteemed the elderly folk and treated us young folk with courtesy. This earned Jane a soft spot in the hearts of both the young and the old in Nyasi Village. In fact, by the time Jane and Peter had their first born, Davy, more than a year later, one could hardly distinguish Jane from the rest of our community; she was like one who was born and brought up there. The cultural prejudices were just a social man-made barrier; and what man makes, he can also break.
Jane’s industriousness in farming and business ventures soon started bearing some wealth for them, and soon they opened a business in Kisumu town, in Nyanza province, about one hundred and fifty kilometres from Nyasi Village. Jane ran and managed this business while Peter, like myself, enjoyed farming, and we were always together, exchanging farming technology and ideas.
Soon, we were surprised to hear that Jane’s mother was also running a business in Kisumu and that she was meeting frequently with her daughter, but she was adamant on her stance that she would never step in Jane’s matrimonial home. There was this fateful day on which Jane’s mother walked into Jane’s business stall with some packed lunch and insisted they share the food. As mother and daughter enjoyed the dish, the mother said she could just do with a cold soda. The innocent girl swallowed much of the food; the mother was inwardly filled with ecstasy; her long desired sinister, vindictive mission was being accomplished through the food that her daughter was eating.
The following day, Jane fell suddenly sick, and she never recovered from that sickness; it was a slow, excruciating sickness that gnawed at her slowly, for eleven interminable months; it defied all the stout endeavours made by Peter and his entire family to save her life.
On the morning of February twentieth, that year, while Peter and the rest of the family were weeding maize on the farm, and Jane was lying on a sack next to where Peter was digging, Jane said to her husband:
“Peter, since all my people have refused to visit me while I am sick and bedridden, don’t let them see my corpse when I am dead.”
Peter was stunned. He gazed wordlessly at his once lovely wife, who was now slightly wrinkled at the forehead, her once rosy, brown face now emaciated and haggard.
“Jane, what are you talking about?” Peter asked in a disturbed, anxious voice.
“I mean every word of it, Peter.” Jane replied even more dolefully, tears gleaming in her beautiful eyes. Her once young flawless face was now aged and haggard.
“Don’t let them see my corpse.” She repeated sternly.
“Don’t talk like that, Janny.” Peter said. “You are not going to die, darling. God knows you are not going to die. I need you. David needs you…”
Then, suddenly, when the other members of the family were just starting to show their reaction to this strange conversation between Peter and his wife, Jane’s facial expression changed and she smiled at Peter and changed the topic.
“By the way, my dear, in a long while, we have not taken a family photo,” she suggested, “is it possible for us to take one today?”
“So you are suggesting we take one today?”
“Yes, please after work.” Jane replied and lay back on her sack.
She passed away quietly, at eight o’clock that evening.
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A sizeable crowd of women had already gathered in Peter’s compound when I arrived; they were all wailing bitterly. I walked straight into Peter’s house. And there on the bed, at the centre of the sitting room, Jane lay serenely, as though in deep sleep. She had not lost even a bit of her jovial mood. There was now a permanent, triumphant smile on her emaciated face and lips, the smile of one who had conquered a stubborn enemy.
I stood beside the bed, gazing down at her smiling face. I felt a strange impulse and I obeyed it. I stopped over, stretched my hand and touched her cheek. It was still warm. Peter sat motionless in a chair at the head of the bed, staring tearfully at Jane’s face.
“Dan, she has left me.” He said in a voice laden with tears.
“Jane,” I called, “so you have left us?”
As I uttered those words, my own suppressed emotions also came cascading with them, and tears gushed uncontrollably down my cheeks. In all my life, I had never wept publicly in a funeral, but in Jane’s funeral it was different in a strange way. I walked out of the house, wailing a loud. Then, something that had never happened before in our village happened: Peter followed suit. Then all our male age mates and peer friends joined us. It was so strange to see young men wailing in one enormous group. We had broken yet another taboo; men were not supposed to wail in public. But at Jane’s death, it was good to weep.